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Faith Middleton, NPR personality, asks “What do you want for your children?”

Faith and divorce mediator Bruce Clements agreed that the focus of divorce should shift to the children. Judges and mediators should put this question front and center: “What do you want for your children?” They advocate collaborate divorce to prevent the “poisoning” of children by one of the parents. Bruce Clements has published ten previous books. He lives in Windham, Connecticut.

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